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Euthanasia is obviously a touchy, emotional topic. Some people don’t believe in it. Others just can’t bring themselves to make that decision. And yet others just need that helping hand to get them through it.

As a vet tech, obviously I am exposed to it much more often than the average pet owner. I not only deal with it in my own pets when it is time, but working in an extremely large hospital, am faced with it in others’ pets quite often. Because it is seen often, and because I truly believe euthanasia is a humane, loving way to end our pets’ suffering, I indeed do not suffer the same shock as some owners do. Yet, that doesn’t ever make it ‘easy’ for me or any other staff member.

Each one hurts us, too. In fact, veterinarians and technicians alike tend to suffer more burn out in this field than in most jobs. It’s an emotional field to work in. It is not exactly professional for us to break down crying for each pet, and we try to keep in our minds that this is the right thing, but we see the owner’s suffering, we see the bond- whether it’s your first and last visit in one, whether this was something unexpected when you pulled in, or whether you made this appointment last week. We can see it in your face, hear it in your voice- we know how it feels because we love our pets so dearly and know how strong your bond is with your loved pet- each and every single euthanasia is a heartbreak for us, and we feel your pains.

I rarely have the right words. “I’m sorry” is all I can usually come out with, but I always hope that animal’s owner knows that they are not alone and that we understand. When you tell us it is the right thing to do, it IS the right thing to do. You know your pet better than anyone. And for that, we respect your decisions and feel for you and your pet.

When we send out sympathy cards, I again often say the same thing. I will remark on one aspect of that animal that touched me and made an impact in my life, as every single patient has, and will say that “I hope your sadness soon turns to happy memories spent with your loved one”. And even though I write it to each one,  truly mean it. To me, that is when suffering ends, we can enjoy the fact we loved that pet and made their life special, and we can smile thinking of something loving, funny, or enjoyable we did with them. I deeply hope that time comes from each pet loss as soon as possible.

Euthanasia isn’t easy on anyone involved. Don’t ever think we aren’t there for you…. we are.

Christine, LVT

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